Real Skills Workshop - Community Event
Yes My Circus, But NOT My Monkey
Real Skills Workshop: Better Boundaries
Hosts: Rick Wilkes (@Rick) and Cathy Vartuli (@Cathy)
Sun May 25 2025 at 5pm EDT / 2pm PDT (90 mins with a 7 min break)
We hope you’ll join us, and bring a guest!
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- You are welcome to attend as our guest, Free!
If you are able, your financial support is needed…
and greatly appreciated!
You can support this specific workshop on a gliding scale. Thank you!
We’re now offering our full Circle Membership for a gliding scale 1-Time Fee. You get all the Real Skills Workshops, Circle coaching sessions, 8 self-paced coaching programs, and more. Gliding scale. We hope you’ll join us!
Is there a rogue monkey in your we-space?
Hey, it’s not easy to tell where we “end” and another person begins, is it? We are born without this skill, and learning it is a lifelong, nervous-system-deep practice — figuring out what’s mine, what’s ours, and what’s truly theirs.
When we get the hang of this, something magical happens. We can feel genuine compassion for someone who’s grumpy from lack of sleep without taking on responsibility for their mood.
We can recognize that our children are on their own wild, beautiful journey to adulthood (and beyond). Even though we’re deeply involved and influential, their feelings and fumbles aren’t automatically “ours” to fix or carry.
Of course, it gets trickier when we’re being blamed. Are we really at fault? Or is this just another monkey swinging through our circus? That’s one of the essential skills we’ll explore together in this workshop.
If you’re ready to find more freedom, compassion, and clarity in your relationships, we’d love to have you join us.