My first reaction when I read “Do you want comfort or solutions” activated a bit of annoyance. I felt like if I didn’t say I wanted solutions then I wasn’t trying to help myself, I just wanted to whine. I don’t think that is what the meme meant. Yes it is a caring question but it is so foreign to how anyone I know (besides you and those of us in the circle) communicate that it makes me a bit uncomfortable. It activates a thought of someone saying do you want to fix it or continue to complain? Then they walk away if given the wrong answer.
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