You’re cold. Oh! There’s a campfire! You step closer, feel the warmth… ahhh. Keep stepping closer, closer, closer… wow, it’s getting hot…
As adults we understand that there is a right distance from a source of heat. Too far away, the warmth doesn’t go deep enough. Too close, we get uncomfortable – even harmed if carried too far.
Our skin and internal sensors help us navigate that and dynamically adjust .
People also have fire. We physically burn at 98.6F.
Emotionally, too, we can be Fired UP! Raging infernos even.
Or be sloppy, damp, wet cold lumps.
Dynamically adjusting our distance with other humans is not a savvy skill we’re taught.
I was taught to avoid certain people. Sometimes that isn’t possible!
I was taught to hold TIGHT to people that we care about… but what if they need space? Or the dynamic isn’t healthful anymore?
So… that’s what Cathy and I will be exploring, tapping, and refining on Monday… Just Right Engaging.
It’s grounded in the concept of Right Distance… Right Depth. We have sensors that can guide us in finding engagement that works for us, adjusting dynamically without harm, and deepening with confidence and mutual Yes-Yes.
Sound intriguing? Something you are already exploring with those in your world (or want to)? We’d love to have you join us!
Replay is below
A Real Skills Workshop for: Savvy Relating and Engaging
Hosts: Rick Wilkes ~ Thriving Now and Cathy Vartuli ~ The Intimacy Dojo
If you’re new to tapping, we have a free EFT Tapping Course here.
We make these workshops freely available, and… like (almost) everything in business they take money to make possible. If you can include $+ with you registration, THANK YOU!
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With love,
Rick & Cathy ~ ThrivingNow
Your Emotional Freedom Coaches
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P.S. Adira says, “Sometimes it is in the getting close but not QUITE catching that makes me giggliest…”
